Last week (after the big "playroom" project), I decided that now was as good a time as any to pack the kids up and visit my cousins & aunt in Ft. Worth. Jimmy planned on taking Payton for spring break week anyway so I thought I would save him a drive & head there ourselves. I have to admit it was partially because I had never been away from her a whole week and wanted to be able to drop in and sneak a peek periodically. So, we packed our bags Monday night & headed out Tuesday afternoon. The girls did well on the drive & I navigated myself through Arlington & Ft. Worth like a pro ;). We were going to hit up the ZOO on Wednesday but it turns out half price day the week of spring break is mayhem & we weren't THAT eager to see the animals with 5 kids in tow afterall! We mainly just hung out with my cousin Becky & her kiddos. Did some shopping with my aunt & my other cousin Stephanie & her girls. This was a treat because we don't see them often! Beck & I have always been close so not really doing much of anything but hanging out works for me. We took the kiddos (minus my sweet Payton unfortunately) to castle park and they had a BLAST!
Taylor can't get enough of the slide!
*Sesilia & Araseli's Daddy (my cousin's husband Rob) is a Chaplain for the U.S. Army and we're so proud of him too! He will be deploying in the near future as well so please keep the Cook family on your prayer list!*
Some time Wednesday afternoon I decided I wanted to make the 12 hour drive to Fort Leonardwood, MO to catch a glimpse of my husband. We were told he wouldn't be able to stay with me but I thought eh, what the heck, even just a kiss is worth it to me. My mother didn't want me to drive because she knows I have navigation issues and was sure I would end up in New York or something instead! lol So, I log on to check out flight options. $450 roundtrip!?!?! Holy moly, maybe I won't be going afterall! That's what I figured the WHOLE trip would cost! So, then Becky informs me she has a friend who can put me on the fly for free list! Whhhhhhhat!?!?! I didn't know there was such a thing but I'm gung ho! Just have to pay the fees $40 each way. SWEET! So I call in a rental car favor next. A little discount helps alot-thanks pal! Now I get to looking at hotels. $120 a night? I can't do that! Then I remembered a friend saying I could stay on base in guest housing! yay! I look up the # and give them a call to make a reservation. They have nothing for Friday but can get me in Sat & Sun for $40 a night! Awesome let's do it! My mother happened to be off all weekend anyway so it just seemed like everything was lining up perfectly for my trip! I met my mother in Abeline Thursday morning to drop off Taylor because she worked that night and my flight was leaving DFW at like 6:00 friday morning. Becky dropped me off at the airport at 4:00 because the only drawback to flying free is that you have to fly standby. I made it on the plane with no trouble at all after only 2 hours of sleep and arrived in St. Louis by 10:30ish. After getting my bags, I made my way to the Enterprise counter and hitched a shuttle to pick up my rental car. I then made the 2 hour drive to Ft. Leonardwood with sheer excitement keeping me awake. I arrived on base by 12:30 and decided to check out the PX to kill some time while I waited for Dave to finish with his daily duties. An excruciating 2 hours later, he sent a txt saying he was in the cab from his barracks to meet me at the PX. I'm pretty sure I almost turned a back flip as I raced out to the car. I didn't want to make a big dramatic emotional scene so I just pulled the car up front to greet him. When I turned the corner, there he was. It was like I fell in love all over again. I wanted to jump out of the car and into his arms but I calmly gave him a little hug and kiss when he got into the car instead. He had a bag with him and the best news ever! He would be able to stay with me all wknd but would have to make nightly checkin's at midnight. WORKS FOR ME! We drove off base to grab a bite to eat at the local cracker barrel while we killed another hour or so before we could check in. The rest of the evening was kind of a blur-I was soooooooo excited! I remember having dinner at an adorable lil' 50's style route 66 diner and soaking in the jacuzzi tub in our room but not much else. At midnight, I drove him back to his barracks for his checkin. They were AWFUL. Looked like something out of a horror film. Only the building they were staying in was lit. The other buildings were abandoned. It was cold & rainy and in a heavily wooded area. The roads surrounding the buildings were dirt & gravel and the only sounds you could hear was the wind whistling and the creaking of the old buildings.
(not a very good picture from my phone but it was seriously pitch black with the exception of a few dim street lights)
I sat there in the car alone on edge for about 15-20 mins expecting to be greeted by some ghosts of soldiers past but finally Dave was back in the car and we headed back to the hotel. I DO remember falling asleep in his arms and for the first time in a month sleeping through the whole night. The next day, we woke up fairly early, went downstairs for breakfast, and got ready for the day. Dave's mom & stepdad were driving down to see us for a few hours (they live in IL about 2.5 hours away). We checkout out of our hotel and took them on base to grab a few ARMY souvenirs for them, some t-shirts, & teddy bears for the girls then we headed to lunch. After lunch we said goodbye and went to check into the base housing. As soon as we pulled up I knew it was gonna be bad. The hallway smelled awful. There were stains on EVERYTHING, beer caps on the floor, mildew in the shower, and a HUGE gap under the door so we could see in or out by sticking our head there. We could also hear EVERYTHING in the hall as if we were in the same room. AWFUL. I said I would bear it because $40 is $40 and as long as we were together things would be fine. That lasted about an hour. We wanted to take a nap but felt dirty and itchy the second we lay down so we packed back up and called the hotel to see if we could have our room back! lol We returned the keys on post and luckily we got our $40 back! We napped in the hotel room, took another bath, and just enjoyed being together for a few hours before meeting up with some of Dave's "buddies" for a night on the town. The guys were really cool and reassured me that although they had tried to corrupt Dave, he was "incorruptible" and all he ever did was talk about the kids & I. We had a great time and I got to fall asleep in his arms AGAIN.
my good looking husband in our hotel room
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Sunday we decided to lay low and just hang out all day in the hotel. That night we went to a neighboring town to see "she's out of my league" then picked up some dinner on our way back. We talked, cried (well, I cried, Dave just held me), and watched tv for a bit before we fell asleep in each other's arms. Monday we woke up early because Dave had to report for duty. He held me as we lay in bed talking because we knew it would be our last day for this. I took him back to base and waited for him to call while I did some of his laundry at the hotel (can't even get out of that on vacation! lol) We had lunch at the PX & then I took him back to his barracks to say goodbye. My flight was leaving St. Louis that night and I needed to leave base by 3. Dave was getting on a bus for Mississippi at 2. We said a short but sweet and meaningful goodbye in front of the car I'll save the details for us. I'm getting emotional thinking of it. I sat in the car crying as I watched him disappear around the corner. I wasn't sure when I would see him again. I pulled myself together and begun driving. On the road, I get a call from Becky who says, the flight is full and there is NO way I'm getting on it. I call enterprise thinking maybe I will just drive to Ft. Worth and return it there but, they don't allow 1 way rentals. So, I snag a hotel in St. Louis for the night and decided to catch the 6:00 a.m flight the next morning. At 3:45 a.m I return the rental car and hop on a shuttle for the airport. It's packed ALREADY. It takes me 45 mins to check in, check my bag, and get through security. When I get to my gate, there isn't an empty seat and I'm thinking, this can't be good. It wasn't. The plane was full I would have to wait for the next one. But, that one was full too. The next one wasn't looking promising either. If you know me very well, you know that by this time I am in a full on panic! I haven't seen my kids in 5 days, I just left my husband, I can't get a flight home, and have had little to no sleep. I just wanted to get home to Taylor. I knew Payton was fine & having a blast with her cousins but Taylor had NEVER been away from me for more than 12 hours and I was DYING to see her. I looked into flying directly to Midland and thought I would worry about getting my car the next day but all flights had a connecting DALLAS flight! There's a flight at noon but only 3 open seats and 7 people on standby. I'm not getting on that one either so Becky is forced to pay for a flight on another airline. I have 20 mins to hop a shuttle to the Southwest terminal and check in. I make it in the nick of time and safely make it to Dallas but with yet another issue. Southwest does not fly in or out of DFW, they fly only into Lovefield. However, my bags had been checked with American Airlines. I went to Lovefield and my bags went to DFW. After sorting the whole mess out, I grab Payton and my car and begin the 4.5 hour drive home with 2 hours of sleep under my belt. The drive felt horribly long. I was so excited to be with my kids that the night without Dave wasn't awfully unbearable. I even let the 2 monkeys sleep with me so I wasn't alone. Last night however, the loneliness of reality settled back in & I cried because, I couldn't smell him anymore. Once in Mississippi, we learned that he would more than likely be deploying the 1st week of May or somewhere in the last 2 weeks of April. He will get to come home for 3 days to say goodbye to the girls & I a week or so beforehand. Just checked the flight prices, another $450-JOY! lol Worth every penny though. So all in all, I spent waaaaaaaay more $ than I had planned and will not be allowed to leave the house for a few weeks but we had an incredible, unforgettable, romantic, overall amazing weekend and I would pay ANY amount to relive it again.
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